This is a memorial website to honor our dear friend and loved one, Dan Bergin. Dan has many friends in the sailing and skiing communities; in the piloting and kite gliding communities; in the enlightenment intensive communities, and many, many other groups and organizations, as well his close and loved primary family. This "blog" gives us an opportunity to express our feelings for and to Dan and to recount experiences we had with him.

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Monday, October 29, 2007

Brad Stock

Dan, my friend. I spoke to Dan only weeks before his passing, after losing touch with him for some time. I was glad to re-connect with him. I was also shocked to hear of his passing. I would not have known of his passing for some time had i not serendipitously bumped into one of his closest friends last week at Guitar Center.

I was very happy to hear that he was in love and living his life to his fullest potential. Dan was a beautiful friend: optimistic, supportive, bold, fearless, and always greeting with a beautiful smile. Dan and I spent a lot of time together in Salt Lake, in the mountains, and at his Park City home. We spoke of being soul brothers of sorts, sharing many of the same struggles, hopes, and dreams, and Dan's spirit remains in my heart as it does in so many others. Even in his darkest times his light showed so brightly into the world. My condolences go out to Dan's family and closest friends. I miss you, Dan, but I am very happy that you were happy, and doing what you love, when you died.

Love,

Brad

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Stacy Sipinen


My condolences, love and support go out to Dan's friends and family. I was Dan's sister-in-law for several years. His light was such a bright one, and he will be missed by so many. Dan inspired us to live life to its fullest, and to find the adventure, passion, and enthusiasm in all that we do.

I had the opportunity to ski with Dan a couple times, and experience his patient teachings. He saw me struggling and working so hard to get the courage to just point my skis downhill. After some time, he finally said 'Just go! Just have fun! Think of Jimmy Buffet and Margaritaville!' Suddenly my fear melted away and I started enjoying the challenge.

At our wedding in 1993, would Dan be found taking pictures with his feet on the earth, like the rest of us? Absoulutely not! He scrambled to the nearest tall tree to get the viewpoint he wanted. We had some great photos that day, and a special one of Dan in that tree that to me captures Dan's spirit.

We love you, Delta Dan!

Susan Nettleship

It was only a month ago that Captain Dan attended our own "Cast Off" party...as always with a big smile and best wishes. He was "as good as they get"!... and always a good story to tell too! We met him, the intrepid adventurer, in Port Hardy this last July...after his famous date with the rock. After our own long passage from Kodiak, we were delighted to meet up with another adventurer which lead to a number of dinners and late evenings which included a lot of laughing. We will always think of Dan with a smile and will toast him when we cross the equator...and to all intrepid sailors!

Fair Winds _/), Suzan Nettleship and Michael Bell, s/v MaaMalni

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Maurice "Mike" Cloutier

So very sorry to hear about Dan's passing. My condolences to all the family and friends. Dan and I flew many trips for Delta Airline out of Salt Lake City, as well as mountain bike rides and hikes. It was always a pleasure to have Dan on board. He invariably added a lot of humor and camaraderie and support to any event. “Good Man!”, pretty well sums it up.

Maurice "Mike" Cloutier ~ Delta Retired

The Spizman Family

While we did not know Captain Dan, we know Amy and Mike Bergin, Dan's brother and sister-in-law very well. They are two of the most wonderful, kind-hearted sincere people you could ever meet. All of us in Atlanta who are extended and adoring friends of your family send our deepest condolences during this tragic loss. Dan obviously lived a heroic life doing what he passionately loved the most. While we never knew him, you could simply see the way he loved life. To the entire Bergin family - you are all in our prayers during this difficult time and we send our deepest sorrow to you. May Dan's blessed memory bring you comfort as time passes.

The Spizman Family

Susan Stevenson



It is difficult to accept Dan's passing, perhaps looking at how fragile life is. Dan has been my husband's best friend over the last eight years. We live in Salt Lake and Dan always checked in with us when he was in town over the recent years while he was off on sailing adventures. It was always fun catching up with him. His warmth, giddiness, sense of humor and generosity was always present and enjoyed. Dan watched as we had children and was always so sweet with the kids. The kids got so excited when they heard that Dan was coming over. Our youngest, Graeme, asked about Dan the day before his accident and said "I want to see Dan." Whenever Dan came over Graeme would immediately go into overdrive and start doing lots of jumps and generally just showing his boy stuff to Dan, more so with Dan than when other guests came over. Dan simply brought out Graeme's yang energy and it was really fun to watch. Just something about Dan. Aside from all of his accomplishments, Dan was always willing to help anyone in need, whether by lending and ear, teaching/coaching someone to ski, or using his house as a landing pad. He gave back with whatever he had to offer. I will always remember his warm and generous spirit. Thanks Dan. Love, Susan

Susan Johannes

I met Dan several years ago. He was visitor to my home. I don't think I've ever known anyone so enthusiastic and ready to share his knowledge. He was fun and spontaneous.
He will be missed very much by all who loved him.

Susan Johannes

M Liljen


I had the opportunity to sail with Dan from Astoria, Oregon to Seattle aboard PAPA I last year. In the short time I knew Dan he left an everlasting impression on me, and it was an experience I will never forget. He helped me live my life, and complete a dream.

Captain Dan you will be missed.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

The Moores

































Here are a couple picture from our family album. Dan was our daughter's ski coach at the National Ability Center in Park City. We were very sad to hear the news. From, AJ's family, The Moores

Osha Reader

I was saddened to hear yesterday of our friend Dan's passing. He was an intense explorer of the inner and outer worlds and I was honored to work with him at Intensives over many years. Godspeed to you in your passage, Dan, and my heartfelt condolences to his family and loved ones. May you be blessed with his presence in your hearts always.

With love,

Osha Reader

Puget Sound Kiteboarding Association

The Puget Sound Kiteboarding Association wants to extend to you, the family of Dan Bergin, our deepest sympathies for your recent tragic loss. We would like you to know that our community of several hundred individuals has Dan and you in our thoughts and prayers.

With deepest sympathies,

PSKite.org

Robert Dow











Dan was a good friend and this loss is difficult to accept. We met when I moved to Utah eight years ago and immediately became close. I've never met anyone like him and am proud to have known him as my friend. Not long after we met we climbed Mt Shasta together and in a small cabin on the lower flank of the mountain before we went up there was a discussion about meditation and he said, "Show me how, let's do it right now!". He took off like a rocket and continued to pursue his inner work with the same zeal and focus that he applied to mountain climbing, and everything else in his life. We did Enlightenment Intensives, went to the Zen Center and chanted with Tibetan monks. I was always amazed at his capacity, openness, and tenacity not to give up until he got "it". On Mt Shasta the next day these qualities were evident. The wind was so strong that he couldn't carry his snowboard sticking up out of the pack like a sail and attached it to a cord that dragged it behind him. Other people heading up that day thought it was kind of nuts and I didn't understand why he needed a snowboard to climb a mountain. But that was Dan, always a few steps ahead with a plan for more adventure. The wind flattened our tents around us during the night at base camp and in the morning everyone elected to head down except him. He was focused and intent, said the weather would be clear and calm by early afternoon and took off with the snowboard dragging behind him. He was the only person to summit that day and when checking in with our radios he described how clear and beautiful it was at the top, marveling at the fact of being there alone, a rare thing on such a heavily climbed mountain. I headed back down to the car and it wasn't long before Dan came sliding along. Being early summer the snow was still there and he had boarded from the very top to the car. His face was red from the elements, he had a grin like a Cheshire cat and I was in awe.

I received so much from having Dan in my life. He was the best man at my wedding and will always be the best man I ever knew. I am just so sad, and, as grief is praise, I laud you well my friend. I saw you, you lived a good life, and you were beautiful.

Love,

Robert


Steven Morrison




















































From your brothers of VAQ 141 Shadowhawks. It was a privilege and honor to serve our country with you in the United States Navy.
This past summer we were all reunited for our 20 year reunion and you were able to attend just finishing your voyage back from Venezuela. Bringing Papa 2 to her home in the great northwest.
You will always be in our thoughts. Your honor will always be preserved as a Plankonwer of VAQ 141. Rest Easy Brother!!!

Day is done,
Gone the sun,
From the lakes,
From the hills,
From the sky.
All is well,
Safely rest,
God is nigh.

Larry Schultz

Some of my happiest moments sailing have been with Dan. In the last few years I took two trips with him to Vancouver and was planning to help him deliver a boat (Ithaka) down the East Coast starting November 10th. I have my own brother Daniel who is a bit of an adventurer so the time with your Dan was almost second nature. Dan attended his squadron reunion and also met his girlfriend "Moe" Farley on the last trip we took to Vancouver in June. Here are a couple pictures from that trip. I will miss him greatly.

Larry Schultz

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Gabriela Bergin

I still cannot believe this has happened. We'll miss you very much Dan. He was such a great brother in law. Very sociable and funny.
Thank you Dan for been so nice to me. I will always remember you, I will be praying for you.
Love

Gaby





Meagan Randall

The heart wrenching news started to unravel for me on Saturday. I had heard the news of the wind sailor on Lake Washington last week. I Opened the paper on Saturday morning to see that they had released the name of the person involved. I gasped. No. It couldn’t be THE Dan Bergin. This article said he was of Seattle, Dan was technically out of Park City. Not the same guy. I’m certain of it. I went over in my head that I should give him a call and when he answered, we’d laugh and I’d be relieved that he was okay. I went to my son’s soccer game on Sunday and brought up the story. “Not the same guy” I was told. “This guy was a pilot.” My heart hit the floor. Dan was a pilot. The tears started flowing. No! No! No!
I googled the article when I returned home. I’ve cried off and on since. I just saw him at the boat show. He came up to my booth, gave me a great big hug, smiled his perfect happy smile. Shorts, flip flops, cockle shells around his neck. The quintessential Capt. Dan.
The quote on his home page is one I have cut out and put on my bulletin board. He seemed to truly live his life authentically. More so than I’ve seen of others.
He was encouraging a trip aboard Papa II to Alaska with my two boys. He talked about what he would show them. Life experience. Nature.
I will miss you so.
I won’t forget you.
You brought something to my life and made it richer. Thank you.

Meagan Randall
Seacoast Marine Finance
206.784.7773

Raymond Tolen



These photos were taken from the squadron reunion at
Whidbey Island this last June by me. We had a great
time getting back together after all these years. I will
always remember the good times we had.


Monday, October 22, 2007

Brock Palmer


Each time I think I have accepted Dan’s passing via the concepts of “no loss ever” and “death is not the end”, some thought or feeling rises up and I am overwhelmed with emotional
saddness. Regardless of one’s Divinity and the reality of Dan’s love and presence being in my heart, I am forced to face my humanness, Dan’s humanness, the fraility of life. I thought of Dan as being indestructible; I suppose most of us think of ourselves and the ones we love as being indestructible. The reality of impermanence in spite of the Reality of an ongoing, never ending continuation of love is befuddling to the mind. I’m not ready to say goodbye to you Dan. I will be with you, in contact with you for now. It cannot be otherwise. with love, Brock

Scott Appleman

I was at work today when I received an email from Katrina Garske. I could tell by the tone I was about to be informed of some terrible news. I wanted to stop and rewind the email to obtain a different outcome but I could not. My worst fears were realized; a good friend was gone. I first met Dan at Snowbird when he approached me with the idea of hosting a NAASF (North American Airlines Ski Federation) ski week at Snowbird. That was 2001. Since then, I got to know Dan better. We skied (he snowboarded, too) at Snowbird and at Jackson Hole together and he kept telling me about his sailing adventures which enthralled me. I grew up sailing Fireballs on Long Island Sound and wanted to return to the ocean and do some long-distance sailing. I followed his most recent journey from Venezuela to Seattle online and reveled in his lyrical musings of life on the water. We crossed paths in the Salt Lake airport on October 4th; I was headed to Ft. Lauderdale to attend a ski show and he was off to Seattle to refit Papa II. We briefly discussed his plans to visit the Galapagos the following year, I had just returned. I so wanted to sail with Dan and visit ports both near and far. A more kindred spirit I know not.

Fair thee well my friend!

Scott Appleman

Annie Coombs



We shared many hours over the years, and I always admired his abundant passion for life, living full-blown on the edge at any given time, fearlessly questing and ceaselessly questioning. His captain's log for Papa II was always a delight to track. How perfect that his pushing the envelope should lead him on to the Next One! I'm sure Dan is exploring and exploding the limits of wherever he is now!!!

My sincere condolences to Dan's family, friends, and loved ones. His vibrant joie de vivre and infectious grin will most definitely be missed. We should save a cushion for him at the next EI.

Sent with Love,
Annie Combs

Seattle Post-Intelligencer


Daniel Bergin "would teach others how to live to the fullest."


Daniel Bergin, 1960-2007: He had a passion for adventure
By BRAD WONG
P-I REPORTER


When he was not flying jets for Delta Air Lines, climbing mountains or skiing the slopes, outdoor enthusiast Daniel Bergin could often be found sailing on Puget Sound.

The 6-foot Navy veteran also could have kept his stellar skills and passion for adventure to himself. Instead, he shared both with others.

Family and friends on Friday mourned the 46-year- old's drowning death, a day after Seattle police reported that he was kite boarding on Lake Washington during high winds and was found in the water.

His girlfriend, Seattle resident Maureen Farley, said she kissed him goodbye before he went to the lake. The two looked up at the gusting wind.

"I said, 'Have a great day, and I'll see you for dinner,' " the 37-year-old Farley recalled, adding that he had the most "beautiful blue eyes."

Known as "Captain Dan," Bergin excelled at reaching goals only few could imagine. He climbed Mount Rainier five times, sailed internationally and made 300 landings on aircraft carriers as a Navy pilot.

He also went around the world with the Navy and taught sailing at the Shilshole Bay Marina. "He was big-hearted. He wanted to share his dream and bring others into experiencing something," Farley said.

"He would teach others how to live to the fullest."

A resident of Park City, Utah, Bergin was temporarily living in Seattle as part of an around-the-world sailing trip. This year, he had sailed his boat, a 53-foot ketch named PAPA II, from Venezuela to Seattle.

He named the boat after his father, a former Navy officer who taught him to sail, and was preparing to continue the trip next year. He wanted to visit places such as Mexico and the Galapagos Islands.

Greg Norwine, chief executive of Windworks Sailing Center in Seattle, became friends with Bergin in 2001 and hired him to teach adult students.

"He is probably one of the most enthusiastic sailors that I've known in a long time," Norwine said.

"He pursued his dream by putting his career (as a commercial jet pilot) on hold and sailing around the world."

Bergin was born Nov. 18, 1960, in Rochester, N.Y. His love for the water started when he was a boy, and he enjoyed sailing on lakes in Upstate New York.

After graduating from the U.S. Naval Academy in 1982, he moved to the Northwest and was stationed on Whidbey Island as an EA-6B pilot. There, he loved dining on clams and crabs.

For a time, he lived in Maple Valley and taught skiing at Crystal Mountain. Later, he moved to Utah.

His humor is apparent on his personal Web site. On his sailing trips, he often took relatives, friends and clients. On a photo near his French-made boat he wrote: "Just bring your toothbrush and a smile!!!"

And Farley recalled one saying on his site that she will remember forever: "I will guide you safely to have the best experience of your life."

Bergin is also survived by his mother, Virginia MacKenzie, of South Carolina, brothers Mike Bergin of Georgia and Tim Bergin of Florida, and sister Patty Bedard of New York.

P-I reporter Brad Wong can be reached at 206-448-8137 or bradwong@seattlepi.com.

Tony Chor


I just got some horrible news. In the big windstorm we had yesterday, a kiteboarder died on Lake Washington; the victim was Dan Bergin, skipper of Papa, the boat I sailed on last September. Apparently, it was a freak accident, but I don't have more details. I'm in a bit of shock. I just saw Dan a few weeks ago at the Seattle Boats Afloat Show. He told me about his new boat, and we were trying to find a good time to go see it.

I really respect Dan and the way he lived his life. He was an Annapolis graduate who served our country flying EA-6B Prowlers off of carriers, flew for Delta Airlines, and then left all of that to pursue his passions of skiing and sailing. He really enjoyed life and people; he was fun and irreverent most of the time, serious and professional when needed. It's fitting that he was doing something he truly loved until the very end. In the talk he gave about long distance cruising at the Boats Afloat Show he reminded everyone to actively pursue their dreams. He did. It was a good reminder for us all.

I'm glad we met and am sad I didn't know him better. I will try to live a little more like Dan every day. Rest easy, Captain Dan.